An inspiring piece of advice to share for whoever feels they need a nudge towards self-empathy. Beautiful words by William Martin to soften the exaggerated and paralyzing notion of self-worth. A reminder to question the distorted image of perfection —and the constant perfection seeking thereof. An invitation to mastering an ordinary life that is abundant with extraordinary moments.
“Do not ask your children
to strive for extraordinary lives.
Such striving may seem admirable,
but it is the way of foolishness.
Help them instead to find the wonder
and the marvel of an ordinary life.
Show them the joy of tasting
tomatoes, apples and pears.
Show them how to cry
when pets and people die.
Show them the infinite pleasure
in the touch of a hand.
And make the ordinary come alive for them.
The extraordinary will take care of itself.”
